Gloves: Part 2 – Historic Etiquette

Glove etiquette really isn’t all that complicated. In the 19th and early 20th century, one generally wore them when one left the house. They were expected to be clean, well fitted, tight to the hand and matched to ones outfit. “Worsted or cotton gloves are not permissible anywhere, nor under any circumstances. Ungloved hands are…

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Tea (Part 5) : A Few More Words On The 5 O’Clock and Formal Home Tea

In my earlier post, I mostly focused on the Upperclass and Upper Middle Class Victorian 5 O’Clock tea, which was very formal and had a specific etiquette to it. At the same time there was a less formal version of the formal home tea which might have been given in middle class homes, but also…

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Lost Etiquette: Happy Horsemanship

When we think of etiquette that doesn’t really apply to our daily lives, horseback etiquette is at the forefront. While some of us still enjoy time with these beautiful animals, we generally do not rely on them for transportation or our livelihoods. Not so in the Regency and Victorian eras. For this first foray into…

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Cutting Dead

My Friend, In Grecian times citizens who had done wrong might be voted out of society.  Ostracization meant that no one would speak to you and you would be driven from the town, never to return.  It was literally, a living death.  By the Victorian times, a newer, subtler version of ostracization appeared that worked to great effect.  …

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